Abby and Joe, Video sample

I just received this clip from Abby and Joe's August 2008 wedding at Fogarty Winery; the reliving the day brings tears to my eyes and makes me smile! I am thankful for the opportunity to get to know Abby and Joe, and their families as we spent about 7 months in close contact, planning the celebration you will see here. I miss Abby and Joe! Thank you, Justin Fone, for the memories!

http://justinfone.blogspot.com/2009/03/abigail-joseph.html

Behind the scenes: Ellen and Dane

My Last Wedding for 2008!!! Ellen and Dane, December 27, 2008!

Here are a few "behind the scenes" shots from this intimate 45 guest wedding celebration, which began with pre-ceremony photos at the Hotel Los Gatos.

Natalie Wi, of Allure West, in action.

The elegant pose, with Natalie out of sight!

Natalie and her husband Jung, the complete team of Allure West, actively capturing the best angles for Dane and Ellen's bridal party shots at the Hotel Los Gatos.

Ellen, with her mom, in traditional Korean dress, and her 3 bridesmaids, inside the hotel Los Gatos, before the ceremony.

After the ceremony at Prince of Peace Lutheran Church, in Saratoga, the family and guests were invited to The Plumed Horse Restaurant, also in Saratoga, for a sumptuous wedding dinner, served in 7 courses, plus wedding cake!
The Plumed Horse was totally remodeled this year, re-opening just 4 months ago; the dining room and bar would not be recognizable to guests who have enjoyed eating there for last 30 years...but the food, service, and attention to detail is the same....and then some!

The modern, up-beat bar area served as the cocktail area for Ellen and Dane's guests, with gourmet passed appetizers, champagne, and live piano music.

One of the most notable additions to the Plumed Horse is the 2 story, all glass wine "cellar", which is the central feature between the bar and main dining room. I was able to walk into the chilled wine room, on the glass floor you see here, to view what represents just part of the 14,000 bottles of wine from around the world, which Josh Weeks, the manager, has available for his guests.

The tables were set for 3 to 6 guests each, allowing for relaxed visiting and shared enjoyment of the elegant dinner ahead; at each place was a box of house-made treats, including truffles, macaroons, and lychee nut candies.

Each place setting featured the square Plumed Horse charger, with a personalized menu; the centerpieces and candles, in squares to complement the charger, were provided by Susan Groves, of In Full Bloom Florals.

The wedding cake, also provided by the Plumed Horse, was also personalized with Dane and Ellen's monogram, with ribbon to match the reds and golds Ellen chose for her wedding colors.

Before her guests came into dinner, I was able to play an important behind-the-scenes mending role for Ellen!
Between the photos at the church, and the arrival at the restaurant, Ellen's train had somehow ripped apart from the "bustle", which is used to enfold the bustle closer to the wedding gown, allowing for greater ease of movement after the ceremony.
Fortunately, I have a mini sewing kit in my "little black bag", which I carry with me at all times throughout the wedding day. Within moments, using my pre-threaded needle, I was able to re-attach the hook and eye to the back of Ellen's gown, lifting the train off the floor; she was able to rejoin her guests for the cocktail hour, knowing that no one, especially Dane, would be tripping on her train!
This opportunity to meet an unexpected need, represents just one of the many behind-the-scenes activities known only to wedding coordinators, and their clients!

Ellen and Dane's wedding professionals all "came on board" 2 months before the wedding, when Dane and Ellen hired me to work with them on pulling together a Christmas time wedding.

Thanks to each of you, for jumping in with enthusiasm on short notice, in the midst of the their own family holiday and travel plans! Ellen and Dane were very fortunate to have your support, and so was I!

My Team:
Allure West Photography (www.allurewest.com)
Shawn Cavlan Beauty Company /(www.shawncavlanbeautyco.com)
In Full Bloom Florals (www.infullbloomflorals.com)
The Plumed Horse (www.theplumedhorse.com)
Out of the Envelope (www.outoftheenvelope.com
Lone Star Transportation (www.lonestartransportation.com)
Hotel Los Gatos (www.hotellosgatos.com)
Prince of Peace Lutheran Church
Trudy's Brides (www.trudysbrides.com)
Pruneyard Custom Tailors
Eli Thomas for Men (www.elithomasformen.com)

Turtle cake on Martha Stewart Show!

Many of you remember the turtle cake I featured on a blog post on August 31st, after Abby and Joe's wedding at Fogarty Winery. Well, the turtle, and its creator, BethAnn Goldberg of Studio Cakes, are now famous!

Justin Fone was the videographer for Abby and Joe's wedding, so he was invited to New York put together a video clip of the footage from Abby and Joe's wedding, highlighting BethAnn's turtle cake; please enjoy excerpts of the Martha Stewart Show, aired November 11th, which includes an interview with BethAnn, and of course, shots of Abby and Joe, with their amazing turtle cake!



The Martha Stewart Show from Justin Fone on Vimeo.

A Timeline, in pictures!

One of the most time consuming and critical jobs for a wedding planner is to develop a finely tuned timeline for the Wedding Day, as well as for any activities surrounding the wedding itself, such as the Wedding Rehearsal, Rehearsal Dinner, Post Wedding Brunch, etc.

I develop the first draft of the timeline with the involvement of the bride and groom, then send it to the venue, and all of the vendors, for their input and suggestions. The final version, including all the needed changes, is sent to the bride, groom, key wedding party members, venues and vendors about 2 weeks before the wedding day; on the Tuesday or Wednesday before the wedding I phone each vendor and the venue, to be sure we are all "on the same page" for the celebration plans coming up.

This weekend, as I moved through the days and hours of the "wedding timeline", I decided to take photos, (whenever I had a free hand!) to share what goes on, from my perspective, to make a wedding weekend flow!

In developing and managing a timeline, my goal is to see that each of the my couples' plans and dreams for their wedding day becomes reality, but in a relaxed way; the timeline should not be "master" of the day, but rather a tool to enhance a seamless unfolding of a long anticipated and joyous wedding celebration.

One of my clients lovingly described me as a calming influence and a driving force, depending on the need at the time...in managing the timeline, which reflects the working out of any couple's dream wedding, I have the opportunity for both, if it serves their ultimate joy and satisfaction at the end of the day.

I have heard that wedding days can be extremely chaotic, without a timeline for vendors, venues, wedding party and family members to work from; but I can't say for sure, because I am only at weddings where there IS a coordinator with a timeline, and that is ME!!

So here is my view, from behind the timeline!

Friday, 3pm--Rehearsal at Stanford Memorial Church

Rhett and Pritha, with their 16 attendants, practice how they will be arranged for the "Circle of Love", a beautiful tradition for weddings performed at the Stanford Memorial Church.

After the rehearsal, I met with Pritha and her Maid of Honor to go over details for the next day, and to give Paula a copy of the timeline, with my cell phone number for the next day; I am the point of contact throughout the day for the family and wedding party...my goal is that the bride and groom can totally relax, and do not have to answer any logistical questions about the details or flow of the day.

I love this awesome cathedral, a place of worship, and a work of art, located in the very heart of the Stanford University Campus.

5:30pm----Rehearsal Dinner for 68 guests, in the Miramontes Room, at the Ritz Carlton Half Moon Bay

Rhett's family wanted to incorporate the Ritz Carlton's Royal Blue and Silver trademark colors into the decor for the Rehearsal Dinner; they and their guests were extremely pleased with the results.

7:30am--Hair and makeup begins for the bridesmaids and family members, in a room on the 3rd floor, set aside just for the bridal party.

11am--Pritha gets dressed for the wedding in her suite at the Ritz Carlton Half Moon Bay.

We were all delighted that the weather was so perfect for Pritha and Rhett's wedding day; the view from her suite, as she was getting ready for her wedding, was amazing!

Four of Pritha's bridesmaids helped her get dressed for her wedding portraits with Rhett, at the beginning of the day. Obviously, I was not needed in this task, but I was able to help get the gown steamed earlier in the day....and that was not even in my timeline!

Armando, of Get Your Do Up, is lost in his work, as he adjusts and secures Pirtha's veil, before she sees Rhett.

12:15pm--Pre ceremony photos with the Bride and Groom, who will see each other in a private location, for the first time, and then go with Geoff and Lara White for some ocean-side portraits before the wedding.

Geoff and Lara White begin some portrait work with Pritha, before she meets Rhett.

1:00pm--limo leaves the Ritz Carlton Half Moon Bay for Stanford Memorial Church, to begin pre ceremony photos with the full wedding party, and family members

It was a beautiful Fall day at Stanford; as I walked across campus to meet the wedding party and family at the Stanford Memorial Church, I was thankful once again for getting to work in such amazing locations!

I couldn't resist one shot of the fabulous Fall colors beside the Church!

Geoff and Lara were busy getting everyone arranged for the "formal" pre-wedding shots, so I took a casual shot of 2 of my favorite members of the wedding party..the flower girl/junior bridesmaid, and her cousin, a handsome usher.

It takes professionalism and experience to organize such a large wedding party for well composed portraits; Lara and Geoff were competent, quick and relaxed throughout the process...I will share the results. from behind their lenses, in a later blog post.

2:30pm--bride and bridesmaids move to the Bride's room, as guests begin to arrive; ushers go the the front of the church to greet guests, and offer programs; groom, priest and groomsmen move to the round room to await cue for wedding to begin.

I went inside the hushed sanctuary, just before the huge doors were opened for the guests; all was in readiness, so I joined the bride and bridesmaids to be sure they had water, and a chance to touch up their hair and makeup.

3:00 pm--Ceremony in the Stanford Memorial Church (no photos available until Geoff and Lara have some to share!)

by 5:15pm--Bride, Groom, family members, and guests arrive at the Ritz Carlton Half Moon Bay for the Cocktail reception, followed by 4 course dinner and dancing.

I had been in in touch by cell phone, throughout the afternoon, with my assistant Elisheva, who was helping oversee setup at the RCHMB. As soon as I returned from the ceremony we met to review my timeline, which had included between 2pm and 5 pm: delivery of cake, set up of band, placement of florals, installation of draping and lighting, arrangement of escort cards and placement of the guest book, readiness of the cocktail area and servers for the arrival of guests.

All of the vendors had arrived exactly on time, and each step of the well discussed plans for set up had been carried out perfectly!

I was especially pleased with the elegance and romantic feel of the Ballroom, when I first stepped into it after returning from the wedding; but for me, the best gift of the evening was seeing the wonder and delight on Pritha's face when she saw the room for the first time. She told Elisheva, Tony White and me that it was exactly what she had been envisioning for the last 8 months, all the way from New York City! (Tony and I had been working with Rhett and Pritha via email and phone calls, with only 2 quick visits out here to meet with vendors.)

Pritha's colors were chocolate brown, gold, and Fall shades of red, orange, yellow and green. We used alternating high and low arrangements to add drama to the room, and LOTS of candles, at different heights to add romance and softness.

With Pritha, we chose clear chargers, a gold striped satin napkin, and menus printed to match Pritha's invitations and programs, to welcome each guest to their place setting.

The wedding cake was designed by Susan Morgan, of Elegant Cheesecakes; this one had 3 different flavors: coffee mousse, mango cheesecake, and raspberry lemon shortcake. To provide even more options for sweet flavors, Rhett and Pritha asked the Ritz Carlton to provide an elaborate dessert buffet, including petite key lime pies (my personal favorite!), mini creme brullee and trams, coconut cupcakes, fresh fruit...need I go on??? This must have given everyone plenty of energy for dancing, as you will see below!)

I could not do my job well with out the wonderful help I have from competent, caring assistants like Elisheva, who partnered with me this weekend, to follow through on the details of my Wedding Day Timeline; and without the excellent teamwork from my wonderful vendors, who each followed through professionally and responsibly in every detail, a timeline would just be a piece of paper with lots of words, numbers, and wishful thinking!

A hug for Elisheva, my teammate, before the guests are invited in to dinner.

6:30pm--Guests invited into the dining room, and seated; the bride and groom are introduced into dinner and go immediately to the dance floor for their first dance.

The lights were low, but you get the idea!

7:00pm-8:45pm--Dinner is served in 4 courses, with toasts by the Bride's father, the Best Man and Maid of Honor, after the first course.

8:45pm--Cake Cutting, toast by the Bride and Groom.

After Rhett and Pritha cut the first slice of cake, and very gently fed each other a bite, the Ritz Carlton staff removed the cake, cut and served the various flavors to the guests at their tables, with coffee..meanwhile the band and singers got everyone out on the dance floor!

9pm-11:30pm--Dancing!

.....Rhett and Pritha dancing to Frank Goldstein's Manhattan Towers, a New York sound for my New York couple!!!

...and lots more dancing!

...and still dancing at 11pm...remember my flower girl/junior bridesmaid? She was one of the last ones to leave the dance floor!

11:30pm--guests depart; clean up begins.
(note to Jean: all wedding related items are boxed, and taken to Rhett's parents' suite, as Rhett and Pritha fly out early the next day for their honeymoon.)

12:30am---Wedding Coordinator departs tired but happy!

Thank you so much to my team for this wedding:
Tony White, Senior Events Manager, Ritz Carlton Half Moon Bay (www.ritzcarlton.com)
Armando, Get Your Do Up, Hair and Makeup (www.getyourdoup.com)
Geoff and Lara White, Photography (www.geoffwhite.com)
Nasrin, La Lavande, Flowers (www.lalavande.com)
Susan Morgan, Elegant Cheesecakes, Wedding Cake (www.elegantcheesecakes.com)
Frank Goldstein, Manhattan Towers Band (www.joelnelson.com)
Linda Kaldani, Details by Linda, lighting and draping (www.detailsbylinda.com)
Susan Kelly, Stanford Memorial Church (www.stanford.edu)

The richness of team work

I love being a team player, and recently I had the opportunity to become a part of the wonderful team of professionals working together on Connie and Colin's wedding at the Flood Mansion in San Francisco.

Several months ago, my good friend, Gloria Tritasavit, who was handling the design for Colin and Connie's wedding, asked me to step in as the Month of Coordinator for their wedding, to handle logistics, create a detailed timeline, and oversee the smooth running of the rehearsal, ceremony, and reception, from beginning to end. I was delighted to work alongside Gloria again, as we had in September, for Marce and Alfie's wedding, at Nestldown.

The first member of the wedding support team I worked with on the wedding morning was Barry Peterson, Catering Manager for the St. Regis in SF, where the bride, her mother, and all of the bridesmaids were staying. Barry set aside a room just for doing hair and makeup, from early in the morning through the departure of the last limo, on the wedding day. He even provided a beautiful, and healthy lunch for the bride and bridesmaids...I always recommend a simple meal of protein, fruit, and water for the bride on the day of the wedding; Barry took this to the next level!

Bride and bridesmaid lunch delivered to the Hair and Makeup suite, for Connie and her bridesmaids; it was as delicious and healthy, as it was beautiful!

I was able to hop into the limousine (Andiamo Livery Service offered great service throughout the day...another strong team member!) with Connie's mom, in the last run from the St. Regis; we arrived at the Flood Mansion, for the pre-ceremony photos right on time.


Every area of the mansion was a full of action, with vendors moving like dancers, in and out of each others paths, taping down cords for microphones and speakers, placing crates of glassware and plates near the dining tables, creating floral masterpieces on site from buckets of gorgeous flowers, unloading boxes of props, taping down yards of silk for the aisle runner, installing tall poles for draping and lighting, etc.

The Dessert Buffet was in position, ready for the addition of the delicious variety of sweets, when the sun had set, and dinner was complete.

The cocktail tables were ready to be moved onto the Cortile, once the ceremony had concluded there.

If there was ever a need for a timeline, and overall coordination of details, this multi-faceted wedding was one of those times! As a part of the wedding team, I was able to bring together the multitude of details and timing needs, so that each individual vendor's focus was respected, and factored into the overall plan of the day.

When I arrived I immediately grouped the family and wedding party for the scheduled photos with Anna Kuperberg, another fantastic team member; then I met with Steven Emerson, of Ever Music, and the sound technicians from SF Booking, to determine where to set up mics and speakers for the ceremony, cocktails, dinner, and dancing.

Meanwhile, Gloria, Jonathan from Asiel Designs, and Gloria's assistant were setting up the escort cards in preparation for the guests' being invited into dinner, from the cocktail hour outside.

Gloria and Jonathan work together to get the unique design of escort cards exactly as Gloria had designed it.

Once I had seen that each of the vendors was on-site, unloaded, and very close to having their part of set up complete, I turned my attention to getting the family, wedding party, and of course Connie and Colin, in place for the beginning of the ceremony.

When I went outside to check on the ceremony set up, I caught this photo of the ring bearer, enjoying the stringed trio warming up for the ceremony...I am sure he is a violinist in the making!

Another essential part of my service at a wedding is to provide at least one professional wedding coordinator assistant to help me throughout the day; now was the time when we were both extremely focused, stationing the ushers to welcome and direct the guests as they arrived, grouping the bridesmaids and groomsmen, positioning the parents, the ring bearer , flower girl, and of course Colin and Connie, for the beginning of the ceremony.

Once I cued the musicians to begin the processional, the ceremony was ready to begin, with the seating of the parents. It is always emotional for me to see the bride and her father, a little teary with joy and memories, head down the aisle to the waiting groom...I see it as a treasured privilege to be the last one to see them, as I straighten, and "fluff" the bride's train for the long awaited entrance...sigh...!

The next 5 hours went by quickly for everyone; the wedding, the cocktail hour, the dinner, dessert buffet, and dancing went smoothly, and we stayed true to the timeline, without feeling constrained.

The menu which Colin and Connie had spent months selecting, and fine tuning, down to the most minute detail, was prepared and served flawlessly, and deliciously, by Betty Zlatchin Caterers.

One of the many elegantly displayed and perfectly seasoned appetizers which were passed to the guests during the cocktail hour.

The result of all the months, days, and hours of preparation, with hard work by each member of Colin and Connie's wedding team, was the beauty, elegance, and fun enjoyed by all the family and guests.

The guests found their escort card with their name and table assignment presented on lacquered wooden trays, in the Adams room at the entry of the Flood Mansion.

Just beyond the Adams room is the entrance into the main dining area at the Flood Mansion.

The tables were set with customized place cards, detailed menus, and striking black/white, blue and yellow decor.

This is the bride's chair at dinner; Connie had asked me to place her wedding shoes there, so she could rest her feet during the cocktail hour, in comfy flip flops....4" heels create an elegant look, but I think a break for the bride's feet, before the first dance, is a great idea.

The overview of the dining room, during the first course, oysters on the half shell.

The dessert buffet, with the Croquembouche in the center, was a huge hit for the wedding guests, both for the beauty of the design, and for the delicious choices of small sweets.

I would love to work again with any and all of the wonderful wedding professionals who made up Colin and Connie's "team"; they are:

Gloria Wong Tritasavit, Design (www.sashandsugar.com)
Asiel Design, Florals (www.asieldesign.com)
David Zlatchin, Caterer (www.bettyzlatchincatering.com)
Anna Kuperberg, Photographer (www.kuperberg.com)
Steven Emerson, Ever Music Group, (www.evermusicgroup.com)
Enhanced Lighting, Draping and lighting (www.enhancedlighting.com)
The Studio Agency, Hair and makeup (www.thestudioagency.com)
Katherine Baird String Trio (www.sfbooking.com)
Andiamo Livery, Wedding Day transportation (www.andiamolivery.com)
Pure Luxury Transportation, Evening wedding transportation (www.pureluxury.com)
St. Regis Hotel (www.stregis.com)
Mandarin Oriental Hotel (www.mohg.com)
Hotel Vitale (www.hotelvitale.com)
and me! (www.jeanmarksweddings.com)